About Dr. Lori Lawrenz 

Compassionately helping you overcome your sexual and relationship concerns while working toward cultivating a happier, healthier life through sex-positive & affirmative approaches.

Licensed Clinical Psychologist; Clinical Fellow in Sexual Health and working toward her AASECT Sex Therapy Certification, under the supervision of Dr. Janet Brito.

Are you struggling with sexual difficulties? Do you feel ashamed or confused by your desires? Do you have trouble feeling good about your sexual self? If so, I want you to know that it can get better. My goal is to help individuals and couples address their sexual concerns as well as to create a judgment-free space in which to explore your sexual self.

Healthy sexuality is related to positive psychological functioning. When we are sad, fearful, nervous, or struggling, it is difficult to find ways to feel good about our sexual selves. When we have sexual difficulties, these performance, pain, or desire issues can lead to psychological difficulties such as depression, anxiety, or obsessive and compulsive behaviors. The mind and body are connected, and I am here to help you get connected with yourself in order to increase your pleasure and live a happier, healthier life.

How does your sexual story impact how you show up relationally? Are you feeling grief, shame, or confusion? Are you ready to expand your capacity for pleasure? Together, we can figure out your sexual story and how your history impacts how you currently engage with others. No matter your story, I will provide a safe space for you to work out your feelings. I can help you explore your sexual and relational patterns in order to improve the way you think, feel, and behave to help you to feel better. 

If sexual trauma is part of your story, I have many years of experience in working with people who have been hurt and traumatized, sometimes as their first introduction to sex. Your wounds from your past do not have to influence your current expression of sexuality. 

For the past twenty years I have worked as a clinical psychologist and I am happy to have the opportunity to re-specialize in Human Sexuality at the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health. I hope to support you in your search for new, creative solutions to new or old issues. My agenda is to help you be the best you. You deserve to live life unafraid, free, and filled with joy.     

Best,


Dr. Lori Lawrenz

My Training

Human Sexuality Fellowship

  • Fellowship in Sexual Health at the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health (2020 to the Present)

Licenses

  • Psychology, State of Hawaii, PsyD #1844, March 2020 to present
  • Psychology, State of Missouri, PsyD #2000152432 April 2000 to present

Education

  • Doctor of Clinical Psychology – Forest Institute of Professional Psychology
  • Master of Arts – Clinical Psychology Forest Institute of Professional Psychology
  • Bachelor of Science – Missouri State University

Doctoral Dissertation

  • A Normative Validation of the Symbolic Meanings of Bender-Gestalt Figures. Symbolic meanings of Bender-Gestalt figures were explored using a semantic differential technique

Professional Affiliations

  • American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors, & Therapists (AASECT)

How We Can Help You

“You can become a more confident you, and we will help you walk the path that makes your goals a reality.”

LGBTQIA Affirmative Care

• You identify as LGBTQIA and don’t know how to come out to family members or friends

• You are feeling discomfort with your gender and need support around social or medical transition

• You struggle to reconcile your sexual orientation with your religious beliefs

Couples & Relationship Counseling

• You have unresolved feelings that make maintaining a satisfying sexual relationship a challenge

• You have trouble communicating your needs to your partner

• You are having difficulties re-establishing trust after infidelity

Sex addiction and Out of Control Sexual behavior

• You feel you must conceal your sexual behavior or desires from others

• You are struggling with sexual thoughts or actions you feel unable to control

• Your use of pornography is interfering with your intimate relationships

Sex Therapy

• You are struggling with aspects of your sex life or sexuality

• Unresolved issues from your past are interfering with your ability to have a satisfying relationship

• You have concerns about your level of desire or ability to become aroused

Mindful Sex Therapy

• You struggle to stay in the moment during sex & have trouble connecting with your partner

• You are eager to be less judgmental, and become more sexually satisfied

• You believe in a holistic approach to healing that includes healthy eating, and body movement

Infertility Counseling

• You are struggling with negative feelings due to issues with fertility

• Infertility is hurting your ability to connect with your partner, sexually and emotionally

• After years of treatments, you need support around the decision to adopt or live child-free

Sex Workers

• You are seeking a safe space to address daily stressors or mental health concerns

• You need help establishing boundaries and creating work-life balance

• You find it difficult to maintain an intimate relationship because of your profession

Poly | Kink | Open Relationships

• You are dealing with challenges associated with being a part of an open or polyamorous relationship

• You are experiencing conflicting emotions regarding your participation or interest in BDSM, fetish play, or other non-traditional sexual activities

Online services

• You are looking for quality care but have limited access to transportation

• You would like to work with a specialist in any of the above service areas but do not live in the area

• You would like to schedule an appointment but would prefer to have sessions in a location in which you are most comfortable