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About Rebecca Hartman, LMHC
I help you to open up and be your authentic self.

Hi, I am Rebecca Hartman, LMHC.

Are you struggling with asserting your sexual or emotional needs? I provide culturally sensitive care and focus on helping you deepen your ability to ask for and receive more of what you desire from dating, relationships, sexuality, and everyday life. Together, we will work to bring meaning to your doubts, explore your challenges with compassion, and create sustainable solutions.

Sexual and relationship health is a vital aspect of living a full, healthy, and rich life for everyone, including the LGBTQIA2S+ community and neurodivergent clients. It is my privilege to help you to manage your current struggles and help you achieve your full potential, free of sexual shame and guilt. I aim to create a safe and non-judgmental space unconditionally.

As a Licensed Mental Health Therapist, I have had the honor of working with clients of all age groups, diverse backgrounds, and orientations. This includes families of children and youth with special healthcare needs and emerging mental health needs, or who may be questioning their gender or orientation. I have a passion for assisting parents with supporting their keiki while managing the emotional stressors that come with internal conflict and doubt. My therapeutic style is rooted in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Feminist, Humanistic, and other trauma-informed approaches. I integrate  Motivational Interviewing and Positive Psychology in our work together.

I am a gender and kink-affirming therapist who has been serving the Honolulu community for over eight years. I am committed to your journey and look forward to meeting you.

Rebecca Hartman, LMHC


Clinical Concerns That I Treat
  • ADHD
  • Compersion
  • Coping Skills
  • Dating
  • Embarrassment About Sex
  • Ethical Non-Monogamy
  • Kink Aware
  • LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Care
  • Navigating Consent
  • Neurodiversity
  • Non-Monogamy
  • Affirmative Care
  • Out of Control Sexual Behavior
  • Poly Knowledgeable
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Worth
  • Sex Work-Related Concerns
  • Sexual and Relationship Satisfaction
  • Sexual Communication
  • Sexual Diversity
  • Sexual Dysfunctions
  • Sexual Guilt
  • Sexual Identity
  • Shame

My Training

Human Sexuality Fellowship

  • Fellowship in Sexual Health at the Hawaii Center for Sexual and Relationship Health (2022 to the Present)


  • Licensed Mental Health Counselor, State of Hawaii, LMHC-545


  • Master of Arts Degree in Mental Health Counseling – Hawaii Pacific University
  • Bachelor of Arts Degree in Psychology – Hawaii Pacific University
Professional Affiliations
  • National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
  • Kink Aware Professionals Community